Not too serious in comparison to other things that happen in the hobby like scamming and cheating?
As someone you has a job, family and life I'm sure you'll understand that sometimes things that are more important than airsoft change around you which then may interrupt on other things , such as, whether or not you can attend a game.
Anyway, I am grateful to you as it is as you have given me some sound advice to someone who is relatively new to the hobby and I'm sorry for wasting your time. Don't see why we can't forgive and forget now though.